Don't Tell Me What To Do... Ask Me!: Creating Egalitarian Relationships from a Gestalt Perspective

Do You Have An Egalitarian Relationship? Do You Want One? This book is for those who want an Egalitarian Relationship rather than a Hierarchical, or Authoritarian one, regardless of how benevolent it might be. Many people think they have an equal relationship with their spouse or partner, but do they really? Not everyone needs therapy to unravel why so much resentment and hurt happens. Sometimes it is a misunderstanding of some of the basic hopes and desires of couples, who have not articulated with each other their assumptions about how to run the business of their household, times together, times apart and other important issues. Sometimes it is not taking the time to fully see and hear one another. Some, afraid to be explicit, try to get by being vague, which doesn't help. This book covers the importance of equality in healthy relationships — with a lot of experiments to help you explore.